They’ve been dating for almost three years so many were expecting today’s announcement, that Gwyneth Paltrow is engaged to TV producer Brad Falchuk.

The GOOP founder shared this joint statement to Good Morning America on Monday:

‘We feel incredibly lucky to have come together at this juncture in our lives when our collective successes and failures can serve as building blocks for a healthy and happy relationship,’ the note began.

The actress, 48, met the Glee creator, 45, on the set of the musical drama in 2014, but kept their relationship under wraps until September 2015.